“Please remember me at my best” – from Remember Me, by the Red Jumpsuit Apparatus (yes, that’s really the band’s name)
This is a plea, and it’s to the person who does the remembering – to recall the best, and let go the worst.
Your spouse’s legacy to you is in your hands. It depends on how you choose to remember.
Can you remember only the best?
If it’s hard – remember that’s what God does for you.