“The veil of falsehood shall be torn down from within you, and Truth shall come to dwell in the mind.” – Guru Gobind Singh
Do you see your real husband or wife? Or are you still relating to the person you courted?
There’s something called “courtship camouflage”, which we are said to apply to let our intended see the person we want them to see, and not who we really are.
True, but far more telling is the selective vision we apply. We see who we want to see, and adjust the light to make the best parts stand out, and things we don’t like shrink into invisibility.
Are you still using the “Magic Glasses”?
Or do you really see the person closest to you?