“The most brilliant man can occasionally make a mistake.” – Adm. Nagumo Chuichi

There is no lack of advice for couples. Much of it is good, and comes from minds far more adept than mine.

But not all of it is right, every time, for every couple.

When you have an uncomfortable feeling when reading or hearing the advice of a brilliant man, loo within, to see if the discomfort is that it hit too close to home.

But trust your instincts. If it isn’t you…it can be them.

Be prepared to say, “Thanks for the advice…but no thanks. We’re good.”